“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
It is the primary purpose of offering your forgiveness to free yourself from the burden of what you are carrying with you. It is not for the benefit of the other person, even though the other person will benefit from your forgiveness. It is the releasing of the resentment, the anger, and the victimhood that will serve you the most in offering your forgiveness.
Your forgiveness is not saying to another person that you are okay with that person doing or saying what they did or said again, but you are letting go of the need to relive it within yourself. Before you forgive someone, you often relive the experience as if thinking about it over and over again is going to change the outcome. It is not. It has a greater likelihood of reoccurring in your experience however, if you continue to give it your attention.
If you want to get obsessed with something, get obsessed with something that you want to occur in your life, not something that you wish had never occurred in the first place. Being the one who offers forgiveness is being proactive. It puts you back in the driver’s seat as the creator of your reality. It gives you an opportunity to express your feelings, and ultimately to clear away the trauma of the experience that you had.
Often you humans like to play the role of the victim because you understand that you are likely to get sympathy from those who can identify with that perspective. And every single one of you on planet Earth can identify with feeling as though you have been victimized. However, not every single one of you can relate to the idea of yourselves as the creator of your reality.
The world needs more creator beings. The world is going to benefit from your willingness to see whatever has occurred in your life as a co-creation, to see your part in it, and to forgive yourself as well as all other people involved in that creation so that you can step into the power of knowing yourself as the wonderful creator being that you truly are. Feel the freedom of forgiveness as it flows through you, and see what you can make room for when you let go of all of that baggage.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”