Romantic Relationships Are Changing ∞The 9D Arcturian Council, Channeled by Daniel Scranton
“Greetings. We are the Arcturian Council. We are pleased to connect with all of you.
We are very excited about the progress that we see you all making in your relationships with one another. There has been a greater understanding within the human collective consciousness about the boundaries that are necessary in a relationship, as well as the need for communication and the expression of feelings. This has increased in recent months on your world. It is becoming more common knowledge that emotions are important and that they need to be discussed.
You also became aware as a collective some time ago about the need for independence and the problematic nature of co-dependence. And so, we see you all moving towards healthier relationships where you understand that neither of you is supposed to complete the other.
You are also getting more fluid and flexible in your ideas about gender, and that means the man, or the masculine one in the relationship, doesn’t necessarily have to be the sole provider, or even the one who makes the majority of the money. And we are talking about relationships where there is one who identifies as male or masculine. Certainly there are relationships where both parties identify as feminine, and certainly relationships are very present where both parties are in female bodies, but we are just using the masculine and male example here to illustrate a point.
And so, when you are more flexible about who does the laundry and who does the dishes, you have a more cooperative relationship where you discuss these things. You don’t have to go into a relationship with an understanding that, these tasks over here go to you because of your gender identity, and these tasks over here go to me because of my gender identity. Instead, we are seeing the progressive way of thinking about what is male and masculine, or what is male and feminine, and so on is being questioned, and you all are giving yourselves the opportunity to express how you want to physically.
Now, traditionally you would have the individual who identifies as more feminine being the one who expresses emotion, and the one who identifies as more masculine being the one who is the strong and silent type, holds it all in, and doesn’t have time for emotions. This is a problematic experience for everyone involved, and it is one whose time is up, because people in all walks of life now are recognizing the importance of communication and the expression of feelings.
You also have seen over the timeframe in which you have been exploring different types of romantic relationships the tendency for one person to quote/unquote ‘wear the pants in the family.’ And what that has translated to for many is that one person is dominant and the other one is a doormat. We are seeing less and less of you putting up with a dominant partner.
And all that we are saying now extends beyond romantic relationship and into relationships between siblings and friends and all sorts of different types of relationships that you have. There needs to be balance. There needs to be communication and there need to be boundaries at times when one person is attempting to assert a level of dominance over the other.
So having all of these understandings makes for better relationships with each other and brings you closer to knowing yourselves as whole, complete, sovereign beings who can express yourselves, no matter who or what you identify as. And this is good for all of humankind, not just the high divorce rate that you have amongst married couples. This is good for all types of relationships, and this is something that will continue to evolve as you evolve.
And when you see relationships changing and shifting, you can rest assured that it is due to an uptick in your overall vibration as a human collective. These are very encouraging things that we see, and we are very much looking forward to where you all go next.
We are the Arcturian Council, and we have enjoyed connecting with you.”