“Part of this process of evolution that you are participating in is the recognizing the value of all experience. You are not just evolving out of the experiences that you have been having in your lives, you are evolving because of those experiences. And that is one way for you to see the value in them.
When you recognize that every experience has its place and that you benefit from the existence of all possible experiences, then you no longer feel that you need to run away from any of them and you no longer feel that you need to eliminate the possibility of any experience.
In your current lifetime, you may only be aware of a certain experience. You may not have that particular experience in your current lifetime. But your awareness of the fact that others are having that experience in part gives you the experience, because you are all connected energetically.
So it serves you very well to make peace with experiences that you are not having and will not have but are aware of and certainly have opinions about. So make peace with the fact that someone else may be having an experience that you find abhorrent and grant that individual the right to have the experience and to gain the benefit from it.
Your knowledge of any experience comes to you because of the fact that still have some work to do regarding that experience. You may need to forgive yourself or someone else. You may need to release any trauma that you have ever experienced in another lifetime that was connected to that experience. Somehow, some way, your awareness of an experience is serving you.
And this also works when it comes to those experiences you want to be having but are not. Your awareness of them sparks within you desire, and that desire fuels you and keeps you interested in your current reality. You get to decide what your relationship to all experiences is, and that is the ultimate in free will.
We are The Founders. We are the keepers of the flame.”