“The ones who are in your life are the ones you have chosen to be there. They are not there by accident. They are not there by only their desire and will. They are there because you asked them to be there. They are your helpers. They are your friends. They are your guides, your teachers.
You are being that for them as well. So whoever is in your life is benefitting from your presence in it. This is not only true of people who you have a close relationship with. This is true for all beings that you have any interaction with whatsoever. You can begin to see them as beings of service. You can wonder what it is that the two of you have for each other. You can notice that there are moments within your interactions where you have a clear concept of what it was the two of you were brought together for.
You can also let go of any preconceived notions that you have held about this individual, because what you expect a person to be is not necessarily what their mission will be in that moment. So it is most important for you to allow others to fulfill those missions and for you to see everything as a part of your evolution.
Everything is there to serve you in some way. Every moment. It will benefit you greatly to be present with whomever it is you are spending time with, to give them the same amount of attention you would if you were sitting across from God, or an angel, or whomever you have decided is a master. Because you are all masters. You are all beings of Divine Light, exploring different aspects of yourselves.
Give the others in your life the amount of respect that you would hold for the highest, most evolved, most enlightened being that you could possibly imagine. And when you have that vision of them, they will be able to give you exactly what it is that you asked them to give you, and they will be able to receive that which you have to give to them. And all of this can be done with a great amount of joy and enthusiasm for life.”